Pete The Planner: Give your relationship with money permission to change

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4 thoughts on “Pete The Planner: Give your relationship with money permission to change

  1. Excellent article. It helps me describe why I deleted my Facebook account a few months ago after 10 years. My attention is now on my world, and I like it more every day.

  2. Great article Pete! As someone that has reached the pinnacle of having the flexibility you describe, I have found myself contemplating your same thoughts on how I spend that time and on what thoughts or worthwhile endeavor. This was/is very thought provoking as I’m sure you intended it to be.

  3. Great article! Wish this could be taught in schools but then I realize, it probably wouldn’t make since until you have experienced life’s ups and downs. Thank you for sharing this.

  4. This is one of my favorite articles I’ve read from you! Just today, after reading another article about attention, I changed a lot of settings on my phone which shuts down apps and notifications for long stretches of time. Appreciate the thoughtfulness and sharing of your personal struggles with this content.

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