Pete the Planner: Financial sobriety: Try to nix a reflexive expense
When an expense becomes normal, it disappears from scrutiny.
When an expense becomes normal, it disappears from scrutiny.
Welcome to the dad talk you didn’t ask for.
AI is spectacular at a few things that most people are, frankly, terrible at.
We tend to think financial independence is about earning more. It’s not. It’s about what you refuse to inflate.
Real opportunity has a sneaky way of disguising itself.
So as we approach that arbitrary time of year in which change seems more possible than normal, set yourself up for success by limiting your new moves.
People are tired. People are oversubscribed, over-scheduled, over-notified, over-upgraded, overdoing and somehow underwhelmed.
Before you assume they were secret geniuses, let me tell you what is actually going on.
Part of what’s thrown off our sense of risk is how resilient the market’s been to bad news.
To best answer this question, we must draw some parallels with how the body ages.
Instability rarely shows up all at once. It sneaks in quietly, wearing the same outfit as “everything’s fine.”
For upper-middle and upper-income families, lower rates are more than cheaper monthly payments. They’re levers.
You can step into retirement without being good at personal finance.
I didn’t have the risk tolerance, the cash flow, the patience, or maybe just the courage.
In the business world, we like to pretend that HR is a utility—something we plug into the wall when we need a solution.
Which is exactly why my goal is to have less income in retirement than I require as a working person in the prime of my career (or past my prime—whatever).
To no surprise, I’ve spent the last 30-some years attempting to learn from the mistakes of others, so that someone else’s pain could end up being my gain.
I’m getting older, and I want to be as mobile and active as possible for as long as possible.
It feels like progress. But it might just be financial cardio: lots of motion, very little gain
But on the journey from dollars to peace, I considered and toiled over several other ideas.